Cognitive dissonance is a psychological concept that helps us understand how and why people strive to maintain consistency between their thoughts, beliefs, and actions—even at the cost of rationality. Introduced by psychologist Leon Festinger, the idea of cognitive dissonance gained further depth through Elliot Aronson‘s seminal work, The Social Animal, where he explores how this phenomenon shapes our behaviors and decisions, often in surprising ways. One striking manifestation of cognitive dissonance can be seen in the political realm, where individuals turn to radical leaders to avoid confronting personal failures or discontentment with ones life.

Let’s explore cognitive dissonance in detail and unpack how it connects to political choices.

What Is Cognitive Dissonance?

Cognitive dissonance arises when we experience a conflict between our beliefs, values, or actions. This inner conflict generates psychological discomfort, which we are motivated to reduce. For example:

  • Belief: “I see myself as a competent person.”
  • Action: “I failed at an important task.”

The inconsistency between the belief and the action creates dissonance. To resolve it, people typically do one of the following:

  1. Change their belief (e.g., “Maybe I’m not as competent as I thought.”)
  2. Justify their action (e.g., “It wasn’t my fault—I didn’t have enough resources.”)
  3. Add new beliefs to bridge the gap (e.g., “Failure teaches valuable lessons, so I’m still competent.”)

What makes cognitive dissonance fascinating is that it operates beneath the surface, influencing decisions in ways that feel logical but often aren’t. Aronson’s research shows that, to protect our self-image, we sometimes take extreme or counterintuitive actions to resolve dissonance. This includes latching onto radical political ideologies.

The Link Between Personal Failures and Political Extremism

When faced with personal shortcomings—such as failing to meet career goals or experiencing relationship breakdowns to name but two—many people feel a gap between their self-image and reality. Acknowledging these failures can be emotionally painful and threaten one’s ego and sense of identity. To avoid this discomfort, individuals might deflect blame outward, seeking external explanations for their struggles.

This deflection can lead to an embrace of radical political ideologies and leaders who provide clear, external enemies or solutions to societal problems. Instead of reflecting on personal responsibility, individuals resolve their dissonance by aligning with narratives that blame “the system,” certain groups, or abstract forces for their dissatisfaction.

A Real-World Example: Choosing Radical Leaders in Times of Inner Conflict

Consider a scenario where an individual, let’s call him Alex, feels frustrated and unfulfilled in some aspects of his life. Alex always believed in the “American Dream”—that hard work leads to success. However, after years of effort, he finds himself in financial instability and a strained marriage. This situation creates a dissonance:

  • Belief: “I am hardworking and deserve success.”
  • Reality: “I am struggling despite my efforts.”

Acknowledging personal failures, like poor financial decisions or neglecting his relationships, or the falsnes of the belief could threaten Alex’s self-esteem and sense of hope. Instead, he resolves his dissonance by embracing the rhetoric of a radical political leader who blames outsiders for the nation’s problems. The leader’s message resonates with Alex because it shifts the source of his struggles to an external cause—immigrants, elites, or a broken system. By adopting this narrative, Alex reduces his discomfort without confronting his own role in his dissatisfaction. This pattern applies to European countries and leaders too. The same rhetoric goes for Italy, France, Hungary, Austria and Romania. The wave of extremism is swiping the world. 

This dynamic helps explain why populist or authoritarian figures often gain traction during periods of widespread discontent. They offer simple, emotionally satisfying solutions to complex problems, allowing individuals to externalize blame and avoid the introspection required to face personal or societal shortcomings.

Cognitive Dissonance and the Danger of Simplistic Solutions

Aronson emphasizes that cognitive dissonance is a universal experience—we all engage in mental gymnastics to protect our self-concept. However, the way we resolve dissonance can have far-reaching consequences, both for our personal growth and for society. When individuals consistently externalize blame to avoid inner conflicts, they not only stunt their own development but also contribute to polarization and division.

Radical leaders exploit this vulnerability, offering clarity and certainty where there is none. The cost, however, is a less nuanced understanding of the world and a greater potential for harmful decisions driven by fear, anger, and avoidance.

How to Break the Cycle

Understanding cognitive dissonance gives us a framework to approach our own internal conflicts with greater awareness. Instead of avoiding discomfort, we can use it as an opportunity for growth:

  1. Acknowledge dissonance: Pay attention to the gap between your beliefs and reality.
  2. Practice self-compassion: Accept that failures don’t define you—they’re part of being human.
  3. Seek nuance: Resist the pull of simplistic narratives and explore the complexity of issues.
  4. Engage in dialogue: Conversations with others can help challenge rigid beliefs and expand understanding.

By confronting dissonance directly, we empower ourselves to make decisions based on reflection and integrity, rather than fear and deflection.

Final Thoughts

Cognitive dissonance is a powerful force shaping our decisions, often in ways we don’t recognize. As Aronson illustrates in The Social Animal, it drives us to maintain a coherent self-image, even at the expense of reality. By understanding this concept, we can become more aware of how dissonance influences our political choices and resist the allure of radical ideologies that promise easy answers to complex problems.

In the end, embracing discomfort may be the key to not only personal growth but also a more thoughtful, resilient society.